If your spouse is like-minded, mediation can be a great alternative to a traditional divorce. However, the mediator is a neutral person. The mediator’s job is to help you reach an agreement. But the mediator cannot give you or your spouse legal advice. And the mediator cannot draft the legal documents required for filing with […]
Are You Hearing Voices During Your Divorce?
Whether you have told anyone you are considering a divorce or that you are in the middle of divorce, you can expect to hear their opinion. It is guaranteed, whether it is a parent, sibling, other family member, friend, co-worker, neighbor, or someone you discuss your divorce with in in a checkout line. Their opinions […]
Are You Financially Ready for a Divorce?
Whether terminating your marriage was your or your spouse’s idea, it is likely that neither have you prepared for it financially. Though it is obvious that it means there will be a split from one household into two households, sometimes it is not so obvious how the family’s finances are affected. For starters, the same […]
Child Custody in Ohio
In many divorces, child custody can be a major concern for one or both parents. Here are a few things you should know. Under Ohio law, both parents stand on equal footing when custody is being decided. In Ohio, there are two options for custody, or the allocation of parental rights and responsibilities as it […]
The Differences Between Mediation and Collaborative Divorce
If you have been researching alternatives to scorched-earth litigation to end your marriage, you likely have read about mediation and collaborative divorce. And you may be confused about the differences between then. Hopefully the following information will help you understand the differences. Mediation A mediator, who may be an attorney or not, is a neutral […]
7 Reasons to Consider Collaborative Divorce
If you are divorcing but want to be able to maintain a positive relationship with your spouse traditional divorce is not the answer. But collaborative divorce may be for the following reasons: It is a private, out of court process. Your finances and “dirty laundry” will not be aired in a public court room. You […]
7 Financial Tips to Help You Start out on the Right Foot During the Divorce Process
A few simple tips make all the difference when you’re trying to organize your finances during your divorce. Almost everyone focuses on division of assets when they are starting the divorce process. However, there are many other things to think about. If I want to keep the home, can I afford it? How am I […]
Tips for Transiting to a Happier Life Post Divorce
When people divorce they often experience strong emotions related the sense of loss that occurs. This article addresses three survival strategies that can help you work through the emotional aspects of your divorce in a positive way and move on with your new life: Choosing the right divorce process Developing a support network Creating a […]
The Benefits of Collaborative Divorce
There are several alternative processes available to people considering divorce: litigation, mediation, do it yourself, or Collaborative Divorce. The process you choose will have a significant impact on the outcome of your divorce and your future. This post discusses the benefits of Collaborative Divorce and why it might provide a better outcome for your divorce. […]
Now what do I do? (Choosing the Correct Divorce Process)
You, or maybe your spouse, or both, have just made the first decision, so often difficult and contentious, to terminate your marriage. The second most important decision that needs to be made is which process will be used to accomplish the termination. Filing for divorce should be the last process you should consider because you […]